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First Love of Radha Kishan : Writting love letters Since I am experienced in the field of Love I would like to tell you something about how to write love letters. I already wrote many love letters for my dream girl when I was in love with her.To start with it is well known that Love is based on delicate feelings.Letters expression such feelings require a certain amount of delicacy in taste and sentiment on the part of the writer.The main aim of the writer of a love letter is to relish and feel the beauty of the object,with proper expressions. I personally feel that writting love letter is a great art and only a true love can only express his feelings in a good love letter. Love is the richest manifestation of human life.It eludes proper expression owing to its inherent modesty and delicacy.Lovers sometimes find their heart full of irresistible emotions seeking outlet in many ways.The pangs of separation from each other,and the inner emotions of their hearts often make their way into letters. Such letters are the most common way of communication between sweethearts when they are far away from each other.Love letters are also penned in many other circumstances.It is most essential that they should be written by hand,as far as possible. These Love Letters have in them all the force which expresses the strong desires of the heart.They have all the fire of human passions as well as the tenderness and delicacy of speech. Love letters are the most delicious part of all correspondence.Love letters are the loveliest letters which are written by the lovelorn couples in order to bridge the gaps of their meetings.Such letters express the pangs,pain and sighs of the lovers.They vanish lonely hours and reassure lonely hearts.They keep the love-embers sweet and shining when the lovers are far away from each other,and nothing else can sustain their devotion. There are not any hard and fast rule for writing love letters.Write them in a simple,straightforward lucid language.A love letter should always be written in a conversational style.The lenth does not matter.The sincerity of sentiments and feelings is the most essential quality of a love letter.Never sacrifice good taste and decency.Write in a natural way without affectation.Otherwise your letter will look artificial.Do not write what is likely to be harmful to you at a later date,or to be misunderstood.Let your heart express its true and unaffected sentiments.Such a letter should be the representation of your feelings.You must frame your letter according to the mind and mood of the person of whom it is intended.It has to be calmly,carefully and minutely planned.You must guard against making a definite promise which you may not want to keep. Originality is half the charm of a love letter.Stolen kisses may be sweet.But stolen phrases in a love letter will carry no weight and may even expose you to ridicule,and they will not be able to win love for you. A love letter should be fresh like flowers.It is a noble instrument of cementing two souls.It is a heart to heart talk.Make it more spontaneous,sincere,and emotional and be frank in the expression of your genuine feelings. Remember that everything is fair in love and war.Love letter should be written in a manner so that the reader may feel cheerful and encouraged.Use phrases and words having clear meanings and sense. Duplicity,insincerity,carelessness,concealment,hypocrisy,and so forth,must be avoided.The normal rules for beginning and ending letters do not apply to love letters.Endearing expression of salutations like 'My dearest...' My darling...' Dearest....,'Dearest darling...., my sweet heart...,'and so on, are used in love letters. The word 'love' cannot be left out of the ending of a love letter.You should close such letters with the words having warmth and sincerity such as "With all my love', 'With my love and affection','Totally your's','With deep love forever' and so forth. A young man seeking the hand of a woman through a letter,should convey his desire in a very polite,polished and dignified manner.Also the young woman,whether she accepts the proposal for marriage or not should while replying to the letter,observe the amount of decency and decorum.The whole correspondence should be carried out in such a way that the mere exchange of correspondence would not tend to affect adversely the character and integrity of either of the person concerned. Any devoted married couple temporarily separated from each other can also effectively convey their feelings of mutual love and agony of separation through letters.In the realm of love,expression and communication are most vital.To express and communicate what you mean is the only way to acquire success.It requires a skill to be cultivated. The significance of a Love Letter as a means of communication can hardly be over-emphasized.When a person is called to pen a letter,he is supposed to arouse and sustain the interest of the reader and recipient,but it is not an easy end to achieve.Very few other pleasures can match that of receiving or penning a love letter for a loved one,unless it be a visit. A Love Letter is the most personal document.It's the writer's second self,a mirror of his entire personality.So,while writing it let it have as much of your personal charm and touch as possible.In writing such a highly personal document one is likely to become emotional,but season your emotions with reason and don't be swept off your feet. Be original,for originality in approach,ideas and style constitute more than half the charm of the letter.A Love Letter is a scripture of emotions therefore,let it be pointed,exact,brief so as to go direct in the heart of the loved one.Make it alive,reassuring,vibrant,imaginative sweet,and suggestive so that it may banish the lethargy,loneliness on the part of the receiver and may create an atmosphere of sunshine and intimate conversation in whispers. Love Letters contents and styles must be sincere,for it is the most prized quality.Whatever you pendown on paper must comes straight from your heart.While writing a Love letter keep it contantly in your mind for whom you are writing your letter.His or her knowledge,likings,mood,nature etc.,should be before you.Talk to him or her in the language familiar to the addressee,for you are writing to someone you love passionately and care for. Be confident,have the mental image of the loved one and avoid formality.Insert the name or the endearing pronoun of the person whom you are addressing to make it more intimate,personal,informal,affectionate and conversational.These qualities can be further underlined by making a liberal use of contractions.Determine what you want to convey and then write them in lucid-way.Remember a letter makes your communication permanent.Therefore,be careful about what you say and how you say.Both are equally important.A Love Letter becomes a personal memento,a bit of a personal treasure,which helps in creating and recreating the pleasure again and again. Avoid writing a thing which may later cause you a heart burning or haunt you back as something undesirable.Written words are a very powerful weapon to make or mar your chances of success.While writing love-letter use matching ink,paper and envelope.You may scent your letter.Leave proper margins,and use short sentences and paragraphs.Embellish it with one or two relevant,short poetic quotations for they form the highest literary expressions.Sometimes a short quotation like a jewel from the pen of a master spirit can serve your purpose in such a way as no other writing,however,cleverly composed,can do. Remember that pen is mighter then sword,your slip of pen may hurt someone.Be careful.Morever the writing must be neat and clean.The presentation of love letter indicates the reality as to how much and upto which height you are in love with the concerned person to whom you are writing the letter.Love Letters are of the deep-bonds between each other. If you want to become an expert in writting love letters, you must read more and more love stories. Love stories helps you to understand love better and inspire greatly to write love letter. You can go through my love story to understand what a first love or true love is and this will really inspire you to write love letters for your own girl friends.
Author: Radha Kishan |