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First Love of Radha Kishan : True Lover A true lover is one who has experienced the true love from his heart. I have gone through many love stories and seen that true lovers are real big heart. These kind of people who have deeper understanding of love have even given their lives for love. A true lover has pure love inside him which is the love of soul and not body. Love for sex is not a true love in any case. some people do think that but according to me of what I have experienced thats not true. Many expert authors and philosophers have written and said that love for pure soul is only the true love and love for sex cannot be considered as true love. You must understand the qualities of a true lover. Once you know that you can easily decide whether your love is true love or not. A true lover would never want love forcefully from someone. True love occurs quite naturally. Suppose you are a boy and you see a girl in college for the first time. You may feel anything about her. Like you may feel that she looks nice, she looks young, she looks ugly, she looks smart, she looks serious, she looks dashing, she looks in anger, she looks horrible, she looks crazy, she looks in bad mood, she looks like suffering, she looks sexy, she looks book worm, she looks silent, she looks peaceful, she looks beautiful, she looks old aged etc. But all these feelings about her will never tell that you have true love for her. SO you are excited to know what kind of feelings should declare that you are in true love with her? If you see a girl first time and all the feelings are coming in your mind as mentioned above then still you dont have true love for her. Than you may ask what kind of feelings tell that you are in love with her?. So here it is............ When you look at a girl for the first time and by just looking at her if you feel peace and happiness inside and your heart stars beating and you feel great joy inside that means you are in the state of first love and a true love. You will remember those moments forever in your life. This is also the quality of a true lover. Means a true lover doesnt want anything from her girl friend but only her presence gives him joy and happiness inside. When you laugh at someone that also gives you joy but that is a different kind of joy because that joy doesnt come from heart. The joy which you get when you see your lover is different all together and that kind of joy originates from the soul of your small heart. This joy can only be felt and not described in words. Such first love moments hardly comes in anybody's life. Only the people who are not selfish and have love for everyone often experience such first love as God gift them with love as they have love for others. When people see movies related to love stories some of them think it crazy how can someone love each other so much that they are ready to sacrifice anything for their love. But since they havent experience it themselves so they find it quite indifferent. But some others like it very much and they are waiting eagerly to experience their first love as well. Such love often creates a love story which is remembered for years to come and people learn lessons from it. You can read such a true love story at the home page of this site. This is my own love story .Since I experienced it I am writting about it so that lovers can also enjoy it and better understand what a first love or true love is and who a true lover is.
Author: Radha Kishan |