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First Love of Radha Kishan : Love Resources : Teacher love Teacher love is a different love. It differs from other's love. Teacher love is most important to each and every student. When a teacher and a student get attracted each other, it is very difficult to handle because both of their feelings can be more powerful. At a student age they can not be able to control their emotional feelings. They get attracted soon as they saw some unattainable figure. If that person refuses to obtain, then the situation become complicated. The student of this age can not have perfect idea of love. They can not be able to differentiate the terms of love as siblings or friendship love. Teacher should be able to look after those types of students. They are not aware of love because they are too young t understand the complete meaning of love. These defects of students can be corrected by teacher's love. Students should learn the appropriate and safest expression of love. It is the duty of teacher who should teach them by showing their love and affection. Mostly, these kinds of lessons give them a confused situation. They can not able to decide what is safe and what appropriate method to express a love is. This may lead them to damage their future. So, teachers should be very careful while handling these types of students. They have to fully concentrate on showing love towards them. At this situation teachers do not know what to do next. They are pushed to a confused state. So, it is fully belongs to that teacher to do something to that student. It is for her protection too. Teacher love should be showed on students gently and affectionately. Students at the age of six or seven, they are not grown emotionally. They are not clear about love. Moreover, they will never experience love for anybody. According to him, both boys and girls are same at this age. They never have any kind of feeling of love in their mind. Sometimes, they are being attracted by their opposite sex, mostly their teachers. It provides some kind of strange feeling towards them. They started to pay more attention in their classes. It ends in madness. They will start spending time with them. But these are the unknown feeling that appears at this age. So, it is the duty of the teacher to teach them regarding this kind of attraction. These kinds of attraction and feeling may start with friendship and almost ends in love. Sometimes, teachers also fall in love with a student who attracted them. Teacher love is just a matter of understanding and care towards other. Teacher love can be illustrated as a relationship between a mother and a baby. It is how a mother cares about her baby. Ever child need a mother's love. Without her love, a child can not able to sustain. Like this, every student should be loved by their teacher. Teacher love will help the students to grow skillfully. Teacher love will make some difference in the children's life. Students can have friendship with their teachers. But, an important thing is that, a student should be interested only in support and friendship with teacher, if they wish to continue relationship with them. If teacher has some interest on that students thought, then surely he/she will understand them about your concerns and reassures you. Nobody intimate the relationship between a teacher and a student. Moreover, we can not able to say specifically about teacher's intentions towards a student. But inappropriate relationship that occurs between a student and a teacher will be considered as an illegal action. So, teacher love should be carefully handled to get into any kind of situations. A good teacher is one who has love for his students. He must have capability to forgive students for their mistakes and encourage them again and again. If a teacher is harsh everytime with the student, the student will always be afraid of him. In a situation where a student is fear of the teacher, cannot concentrate on studies. You cannot do well in examination if you have fear and you are nervous. So motivation and encouragment is needed to students by their teacher. A teacher must understand that true love for students can only help them to grow physically and mentally. A teacher should also read good love stories in order to understand what a true love is. One good love story is at the home page of this site which exactly tells what a true love is. Such a true love should be there in every person's heart. Even a teacher should understand feelings of true love and pour love in their students instead of hatret and must not make them more disciplined.
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