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First Love of Radha Kishan : Search for love

According to me love is the basic need of every living thing. You need love because you are soul and not body. And soul is the extreme of love.Love is soul and soul is Love. So human being cannot live without love. Even plants and animals cannot exist without love. If you pour water in plants with love they will grow and flourish. Otherwise they will die of starvation. Animals also need love as they also have a small heart in them to feel the sense of love. Animals may not understand our language and instructions but they better understand love. Many Medical Researchers have already declared that if you care for animals and share love with them they can benefit you in many ways. Now it is being scientifically proved that pet owners have reduced risk of heart disease,lower use of family doctor services,and fewer cases of asthma and allergies in young children. Pets impact human health at several levels. Foremost is the companyship and emotional support they offer. Several studies has shown that support from pets may mirror some of the elements of Human relationships known to contribute to health. The enhanced health impact seems to work particularly well for older people and patients recovering from major illness,say researchers,and recommend that older people should be encouraged to keep pets.So its a good way to keep pets and share love with them from time to time.

Family and friends are the roots for a person to share love with.If you have good relations with your family and friends,no doubt you can lead a life full of joy,happiness and love. But its very difficult to maintain this good relationship forever. If you have a lot of ambitions in life and if you are selfish its hard to find your way for a successful love relationship. Its important that you dont have desire for physical external body comforts. And once you are ready to sacrifice anything for love than you will be on top of the world. You must have only the desire to give away things and not to snatch away things forcefully from others.S ome people feel very happy in gifting something to someone. Those are real people and God bless them and gift them everything they desire in life. While the selfish people are always find in one trouble or the other though they may have all physical comforts with them.Its said in Bible and other religious books of the world that you get peace and love instantly from sacrifice. So sacrifice is the key to win love of your family and friends. You cant get love from objects and goods providing external comforts to your body. If you have desire for such things you will have to neglect them to become more sincere to win the race of achieving true love. To attain complete peace and love inside is the main goal of human life which is only possible if you get rid of your bad habits like anger, jealousy, greed, mutual quarrels, selfishness, sex, ego etc. More you win on these bad habits more you will be loveable and peaceful inside.And a loveable person can only spread love. Humanity and society will disintegrate if there is lack of love and affection among the people. So if you have the quality to spread love than there is no reason why you can't win love of others for you. Dont look at other's faults and mistakes and curse them,instead improve yourself and the whole society and humanity will automatically improve.

Sometimes people dont obey or respect their parents.If you dont have respect for your parents God is never with you.God i s love and love is God.So you will lack love in your life.The best way you can win the hear t of your father is to help him in his work or business, he is involved in.Listen to him carefully what he says and follow him.You can ask him the reasons of what you dont like but dont argue much. After all he has spent more time on earth than you and have experienced much more the taste of life and sad and difficult moments of life. If you really follow him he will feel very happy and will always be ready to support you. He always wishes well for you as he has grown you up with love and care from childhood.Even if you are into different field of work than also your sincerity and devotion towards your work is the key to win the heart of your father. Your father will always want that you perform your duties of life well enough which increases the name, fame and goodwill of your ancestors. And in return you get enormous love and emotional care from him.

Mother is already full of love for her child.To win the heart of your mother just follow your father of what he says as mother always want that her child runs on the path as directed by his father.To win the heart of your brothers and sisters just help them in their studies and give them every small little things they want from you time to time.Just sacrifice your own wishes and try to fulfill their small wishes as far as possible.This will give you immense pleasure in your heart.You can always assume that if your heart is touching the feelings of enormous joy and peace than you are being blessed by God for some good work you have done for others.Even after doing so much for them if your brother and sisters still dont like you or dont love you than also you must not hate them.Just keep on doing your duties which you have towards them.One day surely their heart will melt to better know you and to better understand you.They will realize their mistakes and immediately starts loving you.Always perform your duties of life without any kind of desire in your heart, like some people do lot of social work just because they want to be famous.Your desire to become famous may let you down in the eyes of other people.

Your ambitions are also a great hindrance in the path of love.Your ambitions are not bigger than your duties of life.I will suggest you to sacrifice your ambition if it conflicts with your duties of life.For example,suppose you want to become a doctor or engineer.But your father is a business man.And let us suppose that you are the only son of his and your father's financial position is not good enough to spend money for your further studies.In this case, according to me, you must sacrifice your ambition but you must not force your father to arrange money for your studies if he doesn't want.You must help your father in his business as you are the only one who is going to represent him in his business.Ambition is somtimes uncontrollable. Some people cannot handle ambition; it may bring grief to others.Ambitious people may try to achieve their goals of money, fame, and power through corruption which is totally against love.So if you are searching for love,give up your ambitions which are unwanted or not tolerated by your family and friends. Just read My love story and you can see how I have sacrificed my love to obey my parents request.

To win the heart of your wife simply spend time with her.Try and find time for her to listen to her what she says about herself,her brothers and sisters and everything she want to express in front of you.Your wife doesn't need anything else rather than your true love.And best way to impress your wife is to remain away from love and friendship with other girls.You must stick to your wife rather than roaming about here and there in search of other girl friends. Infact thats why God has created the rule of marriage so that a person does not deceive her wife/husband in love by visitng or making immoral relationship with other girls,women or call girls. After you are married and still you have the habit to satisfy your sex desire from some girl or woman other than your wife,then you are the worst person on the earth.If you are engaged in such activities God is never with you and you are far from love.You cant win love for you by hearting someone.Also take your wife to some hill stations as often as you can.This is needed because they feel irritating spending time in a home bounded by thick walls which seems to them like a prison.But if your wife ask for more and more money from you to fulfill her unwanted desires than you must not also favour her. Scolding is better in this case.