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First Love of Radha Kishan : Making Love
According to me love is something which arrives in your life in a natural way and you cannot make love with someone artificially. You cannot buy love. Means you cannot force someone that he or she must start loving you. You can buy sex but cannot buy love because love is innocent and pure and its not related to any physical contact or relations. Love is something which originates from heart and soul. Some people think that the menstrual pleasure you get after sex is love but my view is different. It cannot be love by doing which you feel ashamed. Ofcourse its duty to give birth to children and thats what the sex is only meant for. If you are forcing someone to make love with you, than you dont have love for him/her but have sexual desire.
If you seriously love someone but you realize that he/she is not paying any attention towards you, than you need to impress him/her somehow. If you are a student try to impress by paying more attention to your studies and get good marks. You can impress your lover only through your good qualities. Try to develop some good qualities in yourself like you can master some of your hobbies like dance, drama, music, singing ,painting etc. When he/she would realize that you are an expert in your field and you can impress other people by your good qualities, she would definately come nearer to you.
Be sincere and serious minded always and dont just talk rubbish and dont cut jokes all the time. Dont wear more attractive clothes in colors like red and black. Your clothes must be light in color so that you look simple and proffessional. If you are trying to impress your girl friend than its not worth to talk and make jokes with other girls. Be serious minded when you talk with other girls. You must also keep the tone of your voice low and speak out with melody. Its nature's low that when you give up your desires, your desired things will automatically come to you. But giving up desires in the hope that desired things will come to you, is also not going to help you. The real way to get everything in life is that do not desire anything and take whatever life gives. Forget everything of what all you want and just concentrate on your duties of life. Thats the reason that intelligent students in schools have more girl friends because when they concentrate in their studies they have to forget all their desires.So this makes them get love from others.If you really want to know what kind of love is a true and innocent love than just go through this True first love story of mine.
Author:Radha Kishan
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