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First Love of Radha Kishan : Love Resources : Mad in love Love is a strange thing.Nobody can define it in few words, Neither can any one narrate it in few lines. But still everyone is trying to define and narrate it in one's own words. It is a true feeling and nobody can deny it. Different people gives us many definitions of Love. There are some people who have a firm believe that love is blind and makes the man mad. So if a person is truly become "Mad in Love", then he cannot see anything bad or wrong in that particular person whom he loves Madly. Infact he can see those qualities which no other person has been able to find so far and the impact of that particular person will remain around him twenty four hours a day. Anyone who gets madness in love neither can sleep nor he can rest till he gets his beloved one. When the person is in love with someone. His mind, heart and soul will be in the hands of that person and he will love to remain in the dreams of that person all the day and night. With the passage of time this may increase and that might reach to the level of madness, but what exactly is the mad love or mad in love. I think it is a disease and like every other disease it has its own symptoms, through these symptoms you may diagnose it in any lover. But let us see why one gets so deeply involved in love so that he looks like mad.Is it because of the person whom he loves? Or it is his own feeling which is so special that he cannot resist to go ahead from a simple love to a mad love.I think the first argument is not much valid. For every one his or her love is all, perfect. Mad love doesnot consider any barrier. Society, religion, belief, money, future, .... Nothing can stop it.He just needs the love. Hunger may not hurt him, thirst cannot not give trouble to him, restlessness will not change him, but he will be really hurted if something is wrong with the person whom he loves. And it is not necessary that such type of love will always be double sided. It may be single sided love too. And this is a very strange condition. One is ready to scarifice every thing including the life and cannot spend a single moment without his love. While other is happily ignoring this great mad lover. What is the result of this type of love. The result depends on the nature of lover. If he is not so courageous, will spent whole of the life with tears and sorrow. Nothing can make him happy. And if he cannot resist anymore, suicide is the escape. I am sure you had heard such type of stories. These stories are the stories of mad love. But suicide is not the only single result in this situation. Some people like to die with their beloved although their beloved doesnot want so. "If you cannot be mine, you cannot be for any one else ...." So a murder of beloved followed by a suicide. But if both the partners are equally involved in love and their intensity of love reaches the madness, then nothing and no one can separate these two.They will happily leave the parents, home, country, religion, wealth, future but not the love... In such cases, parents and society should play a sensible role. They must understand the sensitivity of the case and should not try to put the barriers... So we can say that there is no remedy for the mad love but the love......... So far I have discussed only one aspect of "Mad love" but there are still so many issues of "Mad Love". So let us discover another issue it is not necessary that a guy is mad in love with a girl or a girl with the guy. One can also involve in love madly with one's children, parents, relatives and vice versa. There are some people who madly love their children and they want to fullfill each and every wish of the child. So if he cannot do so then he will have to earn money through wrong ways. And he will be ready to do everything before the demands of his children. So this kind of love should be avoided where you have to sale your faith and honesty. There is another aspect of " Mad Love" which is yet to be discussed and it is the love of getting money. If you are really madly involve in such kind of love then emotions and feelings will go far away from you . And you will start indulging in wrong doings to earn huge amount of money. If you read the newspaper in daily routine you will be shocked to see enormous amount of such cases like son killed his father due to money problem, younger brother killed his elder brother and sisters for the sake of money, Thiefs entered the house and stole all the jewellery, Child of rich family is kidnapped... Kidnappers asking 50 lacs..... and the list goes on and on. So why is this all happening? Who are the people who commit these wrong doings? Actually this is the mad love of money and this is the most wicked and ugly form of "Mad Love". May God keep all of us away from such form of "Mad Love". A true love is different from mad love. Do you want to know what a true love is? Read the love story of Radha Kishan and you can better understand the feelings of true lovers and what exactly is true love and first love.
Author: Radha Kishan |