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First Love story of Radha Kishan : Love failure When a person is unsuccessful to impress his girl friend and unable win her heart, I call it as a love failure. Or may be both the lovers love each other but could not get married due to some reasons like social boundation, that is also a love failure. Love story at the home page of this site is also a love failure but still that is a true love story where the failure could not be counted because such a true love failure even gives more joy in life as it involves great sacrifice. All the great books also say that sacrifice gives ultimate peace inside. This is a fact of life when you run behind things, things dont come into your hand but when you surrender, that will automatically come to you again. Let me tell you the story of one of my friend. He was actually suffering from one way love. Means he was fallen in love with a girl but that girl didnt love him at all. But he was very fussy about her. He was all the time behind her. In college he used to say Hello to her everyday. Actually he loved the girl deeply and also had great respect for her. He wanted to marry her and so always behind her to somehow impress her. But the girl was not much interested in him and always tried to avoid him. One day my friend met me and told the whole story and said that he could not live without her. It was a matter of serious concern for him because he was not able to sleep at night and also not able to concentrate in his studies. The pang of separation was making him ill day by day. He tried everything to impress her but ultimately he came to me and declared his love failure. I just told him that where there is will there is way and so no need to get depressed. He was a week student also in studies and that love craze had even made him more weeker in studies. He was actually fallen in love at first sight with her. So no question this was the first love of him. First love often makes you happy but he was depressed as his opposite partner was not in favour of this love or this was just a one way love. I could understand his situation and wanted to help him somehow. So I told him some tricks to win her love and gave some hope. I just told him to stop running behind her and pay full attention to studies and take active participation in all activities of the school. He was actually confused whether that will work or not but I was confident that would certainly work. He was so crazy about her that he used to tell me what he should do at night as he was not able to sleep the whole night. So I just suggested him to watch some good movies having good love story in it. I suggested him to watch the movies of Madhuri Dixit at night as he was great fan of her also. Since I was a good friend of him so he did exactly what I said. He stopped running behind the girl and became very much serious in studies and other activities of school. ALso I gave him some books of famous love stories so he could pass his time by reading those stories at night. Soon he became more or less happy with routine but he was stick to what I said. He also started helping his parents who were more or less engaged in medical tourism due to health problems. This helped him to divert his mind. In college he stopped even looking at that girl and used to move away from the place where he find her. Also by becoming serious in studies he started scoring good marks in tests and he proved himself to be a sincere student in the class. This made teachers to praise him a lot. Soon the time came when one day the girl surpisingly came to him in the class and asked for some help in a particular subject. At that time my friend just helped her of what she wanted. But when he came back to home, he told me the whole story. I told him that the idea was working. My friend told that it may be that she just came to take help with studies. But I was confident that the girl was impressed and ready to take on with love with my friend. And that came to be quite true. Now the girl regularly started coming to my friend as she was in real love with him now. And also one day unexpectedly she surrendered her love for my friend and asked him to forgive her for neglecting him in the past. So his love failure again turned into real love by his sincerity. So you must be sincere and honest if you want to win someone's heart and get love from her/him. Nothing impresses a girl then your innocent nature and seriousness.
Author: Radha Kishan
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