Love And Desire For Son < First love of Radha Kishan

First Love of Radha Kishan : Love and desire for son

Its the desire of every parents to give birth to a son and not just only daughters. What is the secret to give birth to a son? This is an important topic to discuss because sometimes there are lot of quarrels in a family because of this. A wife has the earnest desire to become a mother of a son and not just only daughters. Infact a woman sometimes cry and feel jealous of other parents having a son. But there are sensible womens also who dont feel so.

Its hard to predict which married pair will have a son or a daughter or both each or may be none. According to me the married couple who have better mutual understanding and love for each other often produces boys as well as girls and they dont fight even if they have only daughters and not a son. But sometimes a wife is over ambitious and her desire for a son is so strong that she dont even respect his husband any more if he is unable to give her a son. A wife who is very selfish and greed of food or drink or money or clothes often have lot of daughters and its hard that God will give her a son.

There are some people who feel happy by giving happiness and love to others and dont have their own desire. But there are also men and women who search for happiness in physical comforts and they do all activities just to satisfy their own horrible desires. Since they are very selfish and spend their whole life for themselves only, God gift them with daughters only and not a son. But its not always true that only selfish people get daughters and its not that girls are bad. There are very very sensible and sincere girls are also there on this earth. Such girls take birth to sincere and loving parents.

A person who has sacrificed a lot in his life will be married to a sensible woman and will be having lot of sons. This would be a gift of love from God for his sacrifice. And I can assure you that this is true. You might have often noticed that people with technical mind like engineers, doctors, scientists, teachers etc often have a son or two. They may have a daugter but they will also have a son. This is because they are high class people who have less desires of their own and they have love for others and they are the people who feel happy by helping others. People who go to high posts in their jobs are very intelligent because they have less thoughts in them and have peace and love in their heart. Thats why they can concentrate more better in their jobs and get more success and rewarded with high posts and also God reward them with a son. On the other hand a businessman often have lot of daughters as they are the people who look for more and more money and often not satisfied. So God often gift them with a girl or two so that they can spend their money on their daughter's marriage.

So God is very clever. You cannot cheat him in anyway. We all are helpless against God's decision. But something we can do for ourselves is that we must do good to others and try to make others happy and dont feel jealous and interfere in their personal life. You can spread love by giving love to others even if you have to sacrifice your own desires. This way you will make God happy and when God is happy, whole world is yours. You will get all happiness in life and not just a son for which you were crying so much.

There are also some married couples who dont have any children. Neither a boy or a girl. Those are often the couples who dont have trust on each other and they doubt each other a lot. Children give birth at places where there is love. Means a married couple who have trust and love for each other will give birth to a child very soon. And if you have lost faith, God will not give a child to you. Also a man who uses abused words a lot from his mouth often is unable to produce children. You must a pleasnt and honest voice and talk to everyone sensibily without hurting anyone in anyway. But this is not always the case that parents dont have children. There are some more reasons.

whatever science and doctors say about having not able to produce children is only scientific. Some men have soft erection and early ejaculation problem and so they are unable to produce children. This is health problem and this happen to those people who started masturbating in earlier age and still doing a lot. And this is the root cause. There is no solution to such horrible problem even with doctors unless the person suffering from it increase the level of cosmetic energy inside him through meditation. Meditation is the only solution to such a problem.

And if you trust me I would say Sahaja Yoga Meditation is the only way to solve all your health problems in life. I have experienced it and so I am telling about it. I had lot of health problems and I got rid of all of them through meditation. Shree Nirmala Mataji is the founder of Sahaja Yoga meditation and she is spreading it in more than 90 countries to spread love, peace and good health. You can visit the site to search for sahaja yoga centers in almost all major cities of the world. So it doesnt matter where you are located.