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First Love of Radha Kishan : Love Actually Love actually is a topic which has no end. Love has no death. It is generated and spread around. Every individual experiences love in many forms. Love actually is an integral part of life for all of us. You are born with mother's love and you know how much your mother cared for you. Your father loved to play with you and was proud to introduce you as his child. We share love with our siblings. We fight with our brothers and sisters and miss them when they are not around. Why do we fight and miss them. Wife and husbands fight and patch up. What is the bond that defuses the fights between us? It is love and love actually makes us realize our mistakes of fighting with the dear ones. Many of us take love for granted. We may experience love actually, but may not share it with others. If you are in love, you must make the other person know it, either by telling directly or through your actions. Love delayed is love denied. We see many of our friends in love. There may be some with extramarital affairs. We are not discussing, if extramarital affairs are justified or not. It is a personal choice. Many movies have been produced on the theme of 'love' . In 2003, 'Love Actually', a romantic comedy was released. This movie had ten stories intertwined involving friends of friends, neighbors etc. This movie went on to achieve a US gross box office of around $60 million and £36 Million in UK by 2005. In India we had our own version - 'Salaam-E-Ishq' where six love stories were dealt with. Love actually may lead to possessiveness. You love a thing and refuse to part with it. You own it and are proud to have it. How will your life be, with out it. You get depressed and restless. Is it wrong to be possessive? No. It is the human nature. However, possessiveness shall not hurt anyone. You love someone and that person actually may not love you. Then, it is a totally different situation, if you develop possessiveness on that person and involve in acts that restrict the loved one's movement, against his/her wish. There are many repurcussions of love. Love actually may give rise to jealousy. You love the best looking girl and she loves you too. Then, be ready to face jealousness of your friends. Do not be surprised, if you lost your best friend, suddenly. You can not compromise your love. At the same time, you can not hurt your best friend. Talk to him and make him realize that, you are not his competitor, and that you were just lucky. Love need not be only between human beings. You may love a pet. A dog as pet may show its love back to you. When you go home, your dog rushes out, greets you, jumps on you, licks you. It is the love actually shown by the dog to its master. Some pets like rabbits, tortoises etc may not have any love to their masters. You may also love your vehicle. You wash it every day. You drive carefully, so that the vehicle does not get damaged. You love to go on long drives in your car. Your love actually shows, when some one asks you to let your car for a few days. Are you willing to give your car to anyone? I am not sure if you would share your love actually! Love actually is nothing but its God himself. Love is God and God is love. And what is God? God is nothing but soul. There is nothing other then soul. All we are seeing is "maya" which we also call dhokha in Hindi. God is not any human being. Most people consider God as human being. God has gifted people with love in the form of true love stories. Many people are fallen in First love during a partcular age of their life. This first love is a small glimpse of complete love of sould. A person is so happy when he find his first love. But he must know there is something more than that which can be achieved through Meditation .Salvation is ultimate true love and that can be easily achieved through meditation. So love actually is nothing but salvation.
Author:Radha Kishan
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