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First Love of Radha Kishan : Look for Love
Every person on this earth is looking for love directly or indirectly. What are the best ways to look for love? If you are a child you will certainly find love in your mother's lap. If you are in school you will want love from your teacher in the form of praises. When you get good marks you are praised by your teacher and parents. This makes you to work hard for your exams to achieve higher rankings in class. So you are doing all activites to look for love from elders. When you are even more matured you look for love by seeing some woman or girl naked. Some young boys are looking for love in blue movies and call girls. Even more matured boys are looking for their first love in their girl friend. This is more advanced type of love which when successful go to marriage and production of children. Some others want to become famous in some sports and by performing well for the country want to become famous in order to look for love and support from general public.
So everyone is looking for love in one way or the other. Suppose you want to earn money. Why you need money? That is for sure you need money for food and shelter. But you also you need money for love. If you are a father you need money to fulfil desires and needs of your children. You love your wife and children and so you do a lot for them and also they love you when you care for and do everything for them. So most of the activities a person is doing is to look for love because we all human beings are not body but we are soul which is the source of complete love. Since we are soul we hate pain and sadness because that is against our nature(that is the nature of soul). Some people dont believe that they are soul and not body because they have some sort of ego. As a result they suffer a lot in life. But people who are understable dont have any arguments of what God gives them and as a result they are free of ego. When they dont have ego they have peace in mind.
But according to me if you are looking for love you must look for true love which is the love of God. Like some people can do anything and go against the rules of nature to get love. For example, some people earn money by illegal means just to make their family happy. When you make money by illegal means this is against soul and rules of nature created by God. When you go against your soul you go far from love. This also get you in lot of unnecessary troubles. SO you cannot look for love by doing wrong things in life. You may think illegal money can give you peace but in reality its not so. Because when you go against your soul, your soul curse you and put you in trouble and your aim to look for love from money is not helpful at all and instead you go far away from love.
Reading good books and love stories always help you to decide what is good to do in life. A love story is a true way to understand what a true love is and how to achieve that in your own life. You can read my personal love story located at the home page of this site. This love story is a great way to look for love as such a love story gives you mental strength to decide what is good and what is bad in love and how to proceed when you are looking for true love. Also you must watch movies related to love stories. Movie makes dont always put fales stories but sometimes they represent their own love stories in movies. Means they are showing their experiences in life in the form of movies. So you need to find correct ways to look for love. Also meditation is a great way to connect to God and look for love and peace from within your heart. Your heart is the best place to look for love and to look for love in heart is only possible through meditation. So mediate.........to find your true love.
Author:Radha Kishan
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