Husband wife love < First love of Radha Kishan

First Love of Radha Kishan : Husband wife love

Some husband and wife are good pairs while others are not. All depends on how much true love is there in between them. A true love cannot happen between two persons of opposite nature. Thats why love marriage is always better than the arranged marriage. When both of them love each other and get married, the life would be easier and most beautiful life having great enjoyment. But arranged marriage is also good if the pair understand each other. But some marriages which are arranged, create great problems in the life of husband and wife. They dont have anything common in them and as result they contradict on every matter of life.

Some couples are so opposite, ultimately they have to get seperated and their married life is ruined. A little bit of co-operation is needed to make the life going smoothly. Why cant husband and wife co-operate? Why they dont love each other? Even if both of them are opposite in nature, they can make themselves understand each other and lead a happy life. But its the great ego, in one of them or both, which dont let them co-operate and love each other. Ego is a great problem in the life of most people. Why a person has ego? because he think himself as body and not soul. All of us are souls and not body. Once people understand this, there will be no ego left. All great books say that we are soul and not body. When you say "I" you say it to your face. But this face is part of the body only and when you say "I" to it, it creates ego in you.

A wife is often quite sensible. A little love from her husband can make her smile. But most wifes have lot of desires. This is the root cause of all quarrels. A wife need to understand what is the salary or income of his husband and accordinly she should demand anything from her husband. A wife dont understand how difficult it is to make money in business or doing some job. A husband feels irritating when his wife ask for more and more money. its easy to spend money but very difficult to earn money. If a wife understand this and restrict her desires, the life could go in a much better way. Satifaction produce true love. A true love exists forever where there is satisfaction. A wife need to have respect for his husband also.

It is my firm belief that it is easier to make a man happy than for a man to make a woman happy. I believe this because men really don't ask for much. If they can camp out on the hard ground with the ants and other bugs how hard can they be to please? Yes, I know this sounds superficial but think about this for a moment. Have you noticed how much happier, and less stressed out your man is when he has his two most important needs met, sex and food? But lot of sex can also be harmful and damage your health. You might have have noticed people in old age often need medical tourism as they dont find solution of their health problems in their own country. So everything has to be in limit for your better health also.

It is also semi-true that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach. They love to eat and they love to eat good tasty meals. When their stomachs are full, and they have been taken care of physically, a man doesn't ask for much else.

A woman likes a man who can cook. How about cooking her an intimate candlelit dinner for two? Don't know how to cook? Get a cookbook and do it anyway. Have some fun in the kitchen and enjoy yourself.Don't forget, you wife likes to be touched and hugged without the pressure of sex looming in the near future. Sometimes the hugging and coddling is more important to her than the actual sex act. Not that she doesn't like to orgasm but that she wants to KNOW that you love her more than the sex act itself. Hug her and cuddle her and you'll most likely get what you want later.

The most important way to show your love is through your acceptance and validation. Are you the kind of guy that discounts his wife's choices, desires, and needs through invalidation? This kind of behavior will cause all kinds of trouble in the marriage.

A husband should know some tips to make her wife happy. He should understand how a wife feel happy. You can make your wife happy when you praise her a lot and also surrender to her. Surrender here means dont look over and talk much with other girls near you. Be serious minded when you talk to some other female, if its necesarry to talk to her. This is the greatest thing to impress your wife. Do not ever laugh and cut jokes with other females. Same is the case with a husband. A husband always want her wife to love him only and not anyone else. He expects that his wife should not go anywhere to enjoy her life with some other people when he is in work during day time. A husband want that his wife should surrender to him. Means the wife must have kind of feeling that she dont like to enjoy with anyone else other than his husband. This kind of feelings towards each other helps to get the life going very smoothly.

Both husband and wife need to sacrifice their own comforts to win love of each other. A husband is often very sincere because once married he doesnt have any interest other than making money for the family. A wife should understand this and should never doubt on her husband. Also both of them need to forget each other's life before marriage. Dont think what your wife might have done before marriage. Just forgive her and this will give enormous love and peace inside you. No one is perfect in this world. Everone of us are doing some mistake or the other. So we must forgive each other to maintain love relationships forever.

Have you ever watch the movies of great film stars like Amitabh Bachchan , Madhuri Dixit and Hrithik Roshan ? You see all these actors and actresses are married and have children. While they do acting in films they sometimes kiss the actress. And you can imagine still these films stars have good relationships with their husbands and wifes because they have true love in them and trust each other. They know this is just acting and their husband or wife love them from heart. This same spirit should be there in every husband and wife to make the earth happy to live.

You can also read a better love story like the story at the home page of this site to understand what a true love is and what you should do in life to get love from everyone.