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First Love of Radha Kishan : Girl in Love Love is like an accident. No one plans to make an accident. Likewise, people fall in love. It just happens. Boy meets girl in a party. Eyes meet and then girl in love, is a common story. The teens are more prone to 'love'. The physical developments and hormones probably make them conscious of their body and want to know if they are attractive. And, if a girl has good looks, there may be more than one boy proposing her to become friends. Flattery may yield quick result and the girl may start believing that she is the most beautiful girl on earth. And this girl in love will realize the flattery, only when she comes to know that the same boy is interested in another girl. What are the symptoms of a girl in love? There are many visible features. Firstly, she is restless and not attentive to many things around when her boy friend is not around. She will be in a hurry to pick up the phone. She will be awake late into night to talk to the friend, when all are asleep. And when she attends the 'call', she may go off to her room or some place where she can talk in privacy. Mobile phones are helping the girl in love to a large extent. The Short Messaging Service (SMS) is used widely to communicate in the cryptic language and with emoticons. If there is a contest for sending fastest SMS, we need a supercomputer to find the quickest person. Even traditional Indian parents may not object their daughter meeting boys. But then, they may not approve them hugging and kissing, even on cheeks. Parents of the girl in love are the worst hit. It is bigger problem, if a teenage daughter claims to be in love. Parents know that it is infatuation and the girl will realize the same after some time. But, how to deal with the current situation? The best way to deal with a girl in love is to understand her position. Have empathy. Look into the circumstances that drove her into love. Is she looking for some soul-mate as the parents do not have time to spend some time discussing personal issues. Do you treat your daughter as a friend? Does she trust you as a friend? If she confides and tells you all that is happening in her life, you are in good relationship with your daughter. Once the girl is mature enough to realize whether she is love or infatuation, she will be able to handle herself well. This girl in love is capable of taking her own decisions. If the girl is already employed and is financially independent, she will be in a position to discuss many aspects of love resulting in a marriage and starting a family. Love is a beautiful dream. The people in love are dreamers and they do not like anyone trying to break the dreams. Be it the parents or the other well-wishers. For a girl in love, her world is the real world and she would not bother about others. Many times we notice them to be more submissive and smile a lot. But some times they seem to be lost in their thoughts/dreams. Parents need to be careful in dealing with their children in love. They need to talk to them to make them think about what the objective of their love is, and what after love. They need not give answers to the children. Just pose some questions, which they may probe themselves. If they get the right answers, they will decide, which is good for them. Let them dream on! Do you want to see a girl in love? Do you want to know how a girl behaves in first love? Do you want to know what true love is? Just read this love story of mine and you can find everything in this love story. Such a love is very genuine and also you can learn from the story what you should do if you are in true love. Some people say "everything is fair in love" .I don't believe this. You cannot do anything for love. Suppose you want to marry a girl but your mother says she would suicide if you marry her. Then is it wise to marry her? I don't think so. You cannot take someone's life because of your love. True love is when you sacrifice something for love. You must not have selfish love. So a girl should be in true love if parents want to know what is right in love.
Author:Radha Kishan
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