Friendship < First love of Radha Kishan

First Love of Radha Kishan : Love and friendship

According to me friendship is the quality or condition of being friends or a friendly relationship.Suppose you are "Rahul" and you make "Ganesh" as your friend.Then the relationship between you and your friend Ganesh is called friendship.In "Hindi" language (Hindi is Indian) friendship is called "Dosti". Love and friendship are more or less same thing because where there is love there is friendship. Read good love stories and you can better understand what friendship is. You can read my love story and my friend love story also to understand how friendship can ultimately get converted into true love story. So make new friends, may be one day it helps to get a true love for you.

Its good to make friends as they may help you in many ways.Now a days chatting online with the help of Yahoo messenger is the biggest source of making unlimited number of friends.So if you are looking for friendship download the yahoo messenger from the site www.yahoo.com to chat online.Once you download the yahoo messenger you can find all types of rooms in various categories like romance,music,hobbies and Crafts,recreation and sports,games,family and home,entertainment and arts,schools and education,science and fiction,health and wellness,Government and Politics,regional rooms like Asia,Australia,Canada,China,India,Indonesia,Ireland,Malaysia,Newzealand,Phillippines,Singapore, Thailand,United states,UK etc,business and finance,computers and internet,featured rooms,Voice chat etc.Once you enter any of the rooms you can find all types of people from all over the world ready to chat online.So internet has now opened the ways to make friends online by just sitting at home on computer.Internet has really made the world look so small.Now friendship is not limited to a country specific,area or community but now its spreading worldwide with unlimited scope.

Everyone want to make friends.Boys are very fond of making girl friends.These boys are usually of the age between 16-30 years who are basically looking for their dream girls so that they can spend time with them and share the feelings of love.Some more matured boys look for girl friends to fulfil their immense desire of Romance.But you must have that quality in you to impress a girl in order to make her true friend.Just dressing up good,clean and attractive clothes may not help you to win the heart of your girl friend.Your sincerity,innocence,personality,nature,common sense,discipline,internal as well as external beauty,self-confidence,knowledge,flexibility,positive attitude,silence,way of talking,style of working,taste of life,body figure,devotion,dedication,family background,honesty,passion,hobbies, etc may also be the key factors in determining whether you have been liked or selected by some girl to choose you for a friendship or as a lover.So try and have at least some of the above mentioned qualities in you to impress a young girl to make her your friend.

I would like to tell you about my friend Rahul. He was my classmate but he was not good in studies at all.But you can say he was good at everything other than studies.He was always eager to participate in all kinds of physical activites like Dance,Drama,Music,Playing with instruments like Piano,Harmonium,Tabla(A small hand drum of northern India.) etc in school.I remember he was always ahead to participate in all kinds of activites held at school specially during the annual school function.He was an excellent performer of "Bharat Natyam" dance and vocal music.This great quality in him made many girls to run behind him as girls themselves are fond of music and dance.So they found him as a resource to learn music and dance for themselves.In other words a single good thing in you can make you the favourite among girls.So try to develop these qualities in you if you want to fulfil your desire to make girl friends.On the other hand one another friend of mine, named Vikrant, was very good at studies and always the highest marks achiever in all subjects in the class.But he was not popular among girls because he was very silent and shy kind of person.So its hard to say which of the qualities in you is going to click for you to make girl friends.So according to me best is to become an all rounder.All rounder is a person who is almost good at everything.Like we can say Indian Cricket player,Mahender Singh Dhoni,is an all rounder as he can do keeping behind the stumps as well as he can also do batting very well.So he is more likely to be selected in the Indian cricket team rather than a player who is just good at only batting.Same may happen with you.If you are an all rounder than you are more likely to be selected as a friend by girls.

Always remember never do flattery to impress girls.Flattery means excessive or insincere praise.If you are involved in flattery this may badly affect your goodwill in a girl's eye.If you are in a school or college and want to impress a girl,make sure you are sincere in your studies as well as in various school or college activities you are involved in.Dont show signs of being over active or over smart.Dont look at a girl with an eye of thirst for desire of sex.That is horrible to do and will not impress a girl in any way.Just look girls with an innocent eye just like the eye of an innocent child.Be cool and friendly always.My personal experiance says that never try to impress a girl in any way and that is the best policy to win the heart of a girl.I tell you the reason for that.Its been a law of nature that when a person gives up all his earthy desires and just have the pure desire,than God take care of him as he is nearer to his soul.Once you have the pure desire in you all other desires are automatically fulfilled.The desire for pure love which comes from soul is called pure desire.Many people dont agree to this.But you can try it and experiance it yourself.

But its not easy to give up all earthly desires.But once you are sincere towards your work and duties of life,you are already on the path of divine love by your "good Karma"."Good Karma" is the good work you do to successfully perform the duties of Life in order to make your family happy and your nation proud.This will give enormous peace inside and all your earthly desires will turn into pure desire.Once you have the pure desire,all other desires as you know already will get fulfilled by the grace of God.

Dont ever tell your wife or girl friend about your vulnerable feelings like fear, shame, guilt, and embarrassment.Dont ever forget days that are special to your wife or girl friend such as the anniversary of when you first met, her birthday, etc. and wish them and gift them something, for your love feelings towards them.Dont ever heart your girl friend when you are with her in a social setting, like a party, by spending more time talking to guys and other gals than talking to her.BE CLEAN. No one likes a smelly guy! Trust me. Brush your teeth, take showers, and please wear deodorant. This is the number one step if you are to even approach an attractive girl.Don't talk about how you beat the big-bad-boss on level 23 gazillion in the newest Barney Video Game. Most girls aren't too interested in video games. The #1 mistake when talking to a girl is focusing on yourself. Girls are way more comfortable when they talk about themselves. Ask about their interests, hobbies, favorite books, music, etc. If she asks you a question, answer it in a few, short sentences and then redirect the question back at her. It also helps if you don't have anything else to say.