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First Love of Radha Kishan : Emotional love A person sometimes becomes very emotional, when he do a lot for someone, who is very near to him, but dont get any response from him as expected. Like a father do a lot for his son but son is not responsive and dont obey him and dont listen to him. Father has great love for his son but actually he want something in return for that love. The father wants that his son should follow him. But the son is not aware of his father's love towards him and so he is not following him much and going his own way. Here father is in the state of emotional love. But he doesn't have the courage to tell his emotions. An emotional type love remains within the heart. It doesnt come out and express its feelings. So the person in emotional love state keeps the pain of love inside and is afraid to express it. Sometimes emotional love can make a person sick. I have noticed that many foreign people come to India for medical tourism as many of those people are in emotional state due to lack of love in their own countries. A love between a father and son is usually emotional type because this type of relationships is not too closer like the closer relationships between a mother and son. Another case of emotional love could be, suppose a girl loves a boy who is from different religion. Now she knows from her heart that she cannot live without him as she is in true love with him. But she also knows that her parents will not allow her to marry him. Here she is in the state of emotional love because she cannot tell her love emotions to anyone. She cannot tell her parents that she deeply love that boy as it would be something to irritate them. Also she has love for her parents, so she cannot go against them. This difficult situation make her cry inside. Also one become emotional when he/she sacrifice a lot for someone but they ultimately throw him/her out of their lives. Emotional love is not good for health. This type of love comes in you when you want something in return for your love and services you gave to someone. Like a father or mother grow a child to make him young but they become emotional when the child dont listen to them and dont respect them. When you do something for someone in love then do it without any desire in return. Dont expect that they will be handy in your needs. Otherwise one day it will put you in emotional love state which is dangerious for health. You cannot remain healthy if you are emotional. If you are in such an emotional love state, you carefully need to come out of it. You trust others because you dont trust in God. If you will trust God, God will help you. In what way God can help? God will not come to you and will give everything whatever you expected in return from others for your love to them. God is certainly not going to do that. But he will give you something more valuable then that. He will give you mental strength and trust in him. He will give you energy to fight against those who gave you emotional love and now dont care about you. God will pour your heart with true love and this will make you happy within. As a result you will forget all emotions and others will start envying you. When you will come near to God, everyone will come near to you and thats a fact of life. You need to trust this and bring it to your personal life. If you dont trust God but still if you want to come out of such an emotional love state, you need to spend your time in some good things. Like reading an emotional love story and find out how characters in the story are behaving. Read different stories and compare the nature of different characters in the story. Also enjoy yourself to watch some good movies of class actors like Amitabh Bachchan and Hrithik Roshan and actress like Madhuri Dixit .These actors and actresses will make you happy by giving you smile on your emotional face. My name is Radha Kishan and I want to help someone who is in emotional love state.
Author: Radha Kishan
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