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First Love of Radha Kishan : Child and love What is the relationship between child and love? According to me you can see God in a child only. The innocent face of a child makes everyone happy. Who doen't love a child? A person without any heart could be the only one who is not interested in a newly born child. I have noticed that a man before marriage is often not resposible, and he more or less always try to find some ways to enjoy himself. But 90% of men completely changes once married and have children. This is only due to the reason that the innocent face of his child make him responsible. A newly born child brings happiness and joy in every family. A father is ready to do anything for his child and as result he becomes more responsible. A newly born child is so liked by everyone because he is thoughtless and desireless. Once that child get older, his desires start flourishing and as a result he is not liked that much as a newly born child. A newly born child is absolutely thoughtless and desireless. Some other young people who doesnt have desires and are all the time busy in concentrating on their work are also liked by others because they are honest in their work and when they concentrate on their honest work they become thougtless. When they become thoughtless they are more closer to God and they look innocent like a child. So they are liked by everyone. A person who has lot of desires and always looking to enjoy himself in some way or the other is often not successful in life. Unless a scientist is desireless he cannot discover new things. So you need to sacrifice a lot in life if you want to achieve something in life. Some parents blame a child when he is not successful in exams. But you cannot blame him. A child is often the photocopy of their parents. If you are intellingent your child will certainly be intelligent. All the goods and bads a child is taking from their parents only. Memory power of a child cannot be changed and memory power differ in every child. And accordingly some children are more intellingent then others. Its all God gifted and you cannot change it. So you cannot blame a child for not scoring good marks though he may have worked hard.Just if you think with your brain if there are so many children in a class only one can achieve top position in class?. I Only thing you can do is to pour love in them. Do not curse them because they are helpless. No one is perfect in this world. Another thing you can do is help them with meditation . Meditation is a great way to increase memory power and increase the energy level in a child. You need to work on the root cause. If there is no memory in a child help them with meditation. That is the only solution. Also some children are intelligent but they dont work hard. Only thing is that they have other desires. So help them with meditation to become desireless. My suggestion would be to let your child do what he wants. If he is sensible he would study himself and no need to tell them again and again to study. Main thing is that just do not stop loving them even if they are bad. One day certainly your child will surrender to your love and will do everything for you. Encourage your child by telling them stories of great people of the world. Make them read true love stories. Check on what basically your child is interested in. This is very important. If he is interested to become an actor like Amitabh Bachchan and Hrithik roshan and you are forcing him to become a doctor, that is not good to do. After all whats the harm in becoming an actor? Actors do make lot of money and they are very popular and also very big heart. Take the example of the great actress Madhuri Dixit .She is so beautiful and all the world is crazy about her. She also got married and have also 2 children. Film stars are doing great job to entertain people. Making people laugh and happy is good work in eyes of God. So there is nothing wrong if your child want to become an actor. Also sometimes parents feel ashamed when their young boy fall in love with some girl and want to marry her against their will. True love is one of the greatest gift of God. You must not interfere in it like bone in meat. Do not stop spreading love and give your child all freedom. Everone is one in the eye of God, so also dont make difference in a girl and boy. Love both of them equally. Sometimes a girl can do what a boy cannot do. There will be no children on this earth if there are no females. So you need to respect females. There is no one more innocent than a child so dont ever beat a child. Child is like a God on earth so help them grow without any fear. Start loving a child otherwise you will not get love from anyone when you will become child one day.
Author: Radha Kishan
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