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First love of Radha Kishan : Boy in Love Love may strike anyone anytime. It is like lightning. A boy is invited to a friend's party and some one attracts him. He does not know why, but he feels like looking at her and tries to grab her attention. The love may have already struck him and it is often called love at first sight. If this boy in love is an extrovert, probably he would walk down to her and introduce himself. Or he may ask the host or his sister to introduce him to each other. It may happen in that party or the next. If the boy in love is an introvert, it may take long time to realize that he is in love and more time to convey the message to the girl. Introverts dream longer and may not like the attention. Irrespective of their personal characteristics, the world is totally different for the boy in love, after they fall in love. Suddenly the telephone becomes a part of their body. We wonder sometimes, what is there to talk to the same person for more than an hour on phone and how one can spend five to six hours at a stretch in privacy. What will they be talking? The answer is simple. Love some one!! You may also notice that your son becomes very active and is full of energy. He may be willing to do any work for you, smilingly. You may safely guess that he is in love and be ready to face his frustration, if some thing goes wrong with his love. As long as the boy is feeling high in love, you need not worry much, if he is doing well with studies and is good to others. If there is a problem with love, you will notice almost immediately. The boy in love gets restless and may even argue with you on many issues. For him, the world is bad. Now, it is up to the parents and friends to bring him out of that situation and face the new world. A boy realizes that he is love with a girl. He may not be sure if she acknowledges the same. He keeps all his emotions with himself and not reveal to her. Even if he is a friend to her and discuss various things, he may never open up and tell that he loves her. Girl must realize this 'feeling of love' even if the boy in love does not actually express in words. Silent love is dangerous. If not exposed, misunderstanding may result in the other person presume that he is not in love. Sometimes, the boys get influenced by their friends. If a boy has a girl friend or enjoying a relationship, there are chances that he boasts himself in the group. This ignites a spark in others. They start looking for an opportunity to 'fall' in love. They may start attending more parties or hang around the places frequented by girls. They may even start getting introduced to girls, whom they like, hoping that, they can fall in love later. This is like attempting to fall in love. They need to become friends, nurture their friendship which may turn into love at a later date. This takes long time. In fact, if this friendship turns into love, the boy in love may have actually known the girl too well and the chances of break up may be less. I myself a boy and my name is Kishan. I also fell in love with a girl during college time. That was my first love. Before I fell in love, I never had any idea what love is . I considered love as love like that of a mother for her child. If you want to know what are the feelings of a boy in love then you can ready my love story at the home page of this site. The story truly tells the feelings of a true lover boy.
Author:Radha Kishan
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