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First Love of Radha Kishan : Blind Love Every one believes that "Love" is the most beautiful feeling that God has created. Love actually is a blessing from God and everyone has got the share from it. Someone who is lucky has got a much share and there are people who have the smaller share of it. Love is a small word but this single word has the depths of oceans, the heights of skies, the heat of fire and the whole beauty of nature is reflected by the word "Love". Love can take many forms like Mad Love, Passionate Love, Beauty Love, Immature Love, sexual feeling love..... so on. But people believe that blind love is the basic and most beautiful form of "Love". I believe that this form is the basic form of "Love" and the remaining are the branches of "Blind Love". What is the "Blind Love" ? I think blind love means love without any greed. It is a blind faith. it is love with soul. It is the love which sees only positive aspects in the beloved. It does not look at other's faults and bad habits. It is the love that will be increased with the time, even if the other is not doing well with you. How the simple love changes into blind love... In the start love is not the true love. Someone falls in love just because of the beauty, wealth , status etc. Usually these things are the beginnings of the love. These things make the two closer. But after that, love intensifies only if both the souls also have love for each other. If the nature of both the persons doesnot match to each other then this love is finished with the passage of time and now this relation is called necessity. And when this necessity will be finished this relation will also be terminated. But if the souls do love each other too, the love intensifies. NOw it becomes blind love. This may be double sided. This may be single sided. How can we determine that the love is blind love. Very simple. We saw that beginning of the love was some beauty, wealth or status.Suppose the love developed was based on the beauty. If , for instance, the beauty is no longer there, due to any reason. Is the love still there with the same intensity ? If yes, the love is blind love. Because this love has crossed the boundaries of cheap basics. Now the love is with soul. And we know that soul is never changed. So love with soul is also not changed. And this is the blind love. This is the soul love. this is the mad love. And this is the real love. But some time blind love is also developed without getting too close. This may be due to some "special hearts" who love once and love forever. This might be dangerous. If a girl is involved with a boy and both are in blind love then it may not cause much problems. But if it is single sided and the other one is not sincere but just want to enjoy and pass the time, then the results will cause some problems. I have seen lots of horrible examples of such one sided love or such blinds love when only only partner is in true blind love while the other is just taking the benefit of it. Few days ago, I heard a news that a girl loved a guy but her parents were so strict that she could not tell them about her love. SO she decided to leave her house along with that guy, So that they could get marry. But the boy was not serious. So he sold that girl to some evil persons, who had the business of body selling of the girls. When she got idea that she has commited a big mistake,it was too late. She could able to get rid of those people. But she was in fear. She could not go back to her house. Her family will not accept her. She belonged to a small village. She knew that if she goes back. She will be murdered. So in her case, her "Blind Love" proved to be the biggest disaster of her life. Similarly "Blind Love is not bound to the walls of any religion, sect, status, class or age. There are many cases of "Blind Love" where either both the lovers belong to different religion or sect or they have diffenrence in their status, class or have big difference in the ages. These kind of "Blind Love Stories" too donot have much depth and mostly is has been observed that such couples cannot carry on their love for a long period of time. If there is love between the persons having different religions or sects. It can lead to a big family clash of both the parties. I can give you one example here. There was a couple who had different religions but they were become so much blind in love that they didnot want to see the after effects of their love. In the end what happened was, the parents of the girl didnot agree and they married her girl with some one else. But the guy got hyper to see this and killed both the girl and her bridegroom. And he himself commited suicide. So in both the stories above we can see just big disasters of not only the blind lovers. But also of their whole families. Are there any advantages of blind love? Yes there are ! If the love is blind love, it will ignore the other's mistakes. The other's faults will be a pleasure. The relation will be stronger. If the blind love is in between a couple, then it will strengthen their relation. The life is filled with small issues and big crisis. If the relation is not too strong, crisis may break the connections of love. But thats not possible in the case of blind love. As the love is blind, so it will ignore crisis, mistakes, faults,worries etc. Blind love is simply not able to see the negative aspects. Instead in the time of crisis the lover will like to sacrifice to preserve their relationship. So you see blind love has saved a family , strengthened a family , hence strengthened the society. We have seen that blind love may be beneficial and may be not. It depends on conditions and circumstances. But there is a kind of blind love, where there are no worries and no disadvantages. And that is "The love with Creator and love with GOD". If some one has true love with GOD i think one has found the secret of life. If you are blind in God's Love. You donot feel unsafe because you have the power of your God with you. We can see many examples. There is one for you. Prophet Abraham was " Blind in Love with GOd". There was a king at that time named "Namrood". He considered himself as God. Since Abraham did not had believe him so he got annoyed with him and thrown him in fire. But Abraham had a firm belief in his God. So he happily, entered in the fire, and everone there saw a miracle. The fire got cold like water and didnot hurt him at all. So this is only one example of "Blind Love with God" there are millions of still to be told. So the point here is just that those persons are very lucky who have been blessed with God's Love. Because this is the most purest form of love and this love will never deceive you for the whole of your life. A person whome God loves is always happy and never go into bad health. Foreign people dont have such love in them and as a result they are engaged in medical tourism in countries like India.
If you really want to understand what blind love is just go through this love story of mine. A true love story of mine and it exactly says what is blind faith and love. Some people often says that "love is blind". But its not so. You say this because you havent experienced the true love. Pray God yo actually experience your first love and then you will never that "Love is blind" .
Author:Radha Kishan
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