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First Love of Radha Kishan : Art of loving
Love is an art. One must know to show the love towards others. It is not enough that you have the love in your heart but it must be shown to others. It must be expressed genuinely. There should not be any fake expression of love. The love shown should be from the bottom of the heart. In the act of love, every action speaks and hence one must be very careful regarding this issue of showing love.
There are many different ways of showing love. Sometimes the unintentional touch can be a great way of showing the love. A loving touch can heal any pain in this world and is the only solution for curing the hurt heart. When someone you really love touches you, you feel the presence of heaven in front of you. Not only the sorrows are lost but after sometime you will feel the tears rolling down from your eyes. You cry unknowingly and then forget all your pains and worries.
But often people say that a hug for your beloved one is the best way to express your love. The hug should be very light and full with emotions. It must express pure love and not the lust. When someone you love hugs you, you loose yourself completely and become surrendered at their feet. You become a puppet at their hands. This is the power of a lovable hug. The person can easily take control of the other. The surrendered soul listens to whatever the person says and acts accordingly.
Any art can be well expressed by the performer. All the artists try to bring out the best qualities of art by their expression in action. Hence is the love. Married couples express their love on bed. It's another way of expression. It helps in the God's process of creation. Thus love leads to life.
Though action speaks more than words, a loving word can really support a wounded heart and easily cures it. When you talk lovingly to anyone, they become surrendered. They easily become your friends and begin to love your company. They will need you every time and will be longing for your presence near them. But these loving words must arise from your heart and not from your mind to work effectively.
Why do we still remember mother Teresa? It is because she loved and cared not her relatives or friends for selfish needs but the entire world. Christ Jesus preached about loving and said "Love even your enemies".
We may not be in a position to help the poor and the needy economically. But the loving words from our mouth will surely support them. If we understand the art of loving and handle it correctly then we will surely win many hearts.
I would say film stars like Amitabh Bachchan ,Hrithik roshan and Madhuri Dixit have great art in them to make love though may be artificially in films. But in real life also they are loving in nature. I have experienced that most of the film actors and actresses are loving in nature and they have so respect for each other's art of acting and dancing and other specialized activities. They are the real people. That's why God has gifted them with some good qualities in them to spread love among others also. In a true way you can see art of loving in a love story. Read love stories and you can see how true lovers have great art to express their love for each other. You can also watch movies related to first love and true love and it will better tell you art of loving.
Author:Radha Kishan
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