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First Love of Radha Kishan : I love you 'Wo ie ni ' in Chinese, 'Mein Tumse Pyar Karta Hoon' in Hindi, 'Je t'aime' in French. All these mean the same thing - 'I love you'. The wordings and language may be different, but the meaning and the feeling are one that of love. We all use this sentence -'I love you', sometime or other.
When one says - 'I love you', is it coming from the bottom of the heart or just off the lips? In the modern world, everyone seems to be using this sentence, just to please some one. Or has it become a routine? Even if it is a routine, this statement works wonders. Expressing your feelings is important. If you can do it by words, it is more direct. You can express your love, by giving gifts to your loved one. But, giving a gift without mentioning how much you love can not have the same effect as giving a gift and telling her/him - 'I love you'. The three words add a great feeling to the gift. Did you ever see the spark on your wife's face, when you return from a tour and you telling her, how you love her and how you missed her? Both may have been busy, but the feeling of togetherness with your 'I love you', you will forget the hectic days you have had. If you love some one, use 'I love you' to tell him/her, whenever, you feel like telling. Else that person may not realize that you are in love. The hardest thing in life is watching someone you love, loving someone else. Once that happens, it is difficult to get your love back to you. Repenting will not help. You need to have courage to face your lover. Silent love may not help. If the people you love are stolen away from you, the only way to have them live on is to never stop loving them. Every one goes through emotions and some bad situations. When your partner is in trouble or facing some problem, hug and comfort them. The magic words - 'I love you' and the warm hug instills lot of confidence in your partner. Wipe the tears of your partner and assure him/her that you are there for ever beside that person. Many times women are stronger than men. It is also widely noticed that, women admire a man because he is strong, but they love him for his weaknesses! Many husbands may express to their wives, how much they love them, during the first few years of marriage. But, they ignore the fact that the wives still like to hear the 'I love you' words from their husbands, even after many years of marriage. The power of love is so great that the ideal husband can understand what his wife did not say. Sensible husbands take care of wife's needs, help her in managing the family and praise the wife, at regular intervals and also make her happy with an occasional 'I love you' ! There was even a computer virus, called 'I Love You' in 2000 which spread across the whole world in one day. This virus infected more than 10% of all computers through Internet and said to have caused a loss of revenue of more than 5.5 billion dollars. This virus written by a student found its way through email system, where an unsuspected mail is sent with a subject line -'I Love You'. When the users open the email and click on the attachment received with the mail, the virus gets activated. This virus overwrote important files and got copied itself and managed to go to another computer using the user's contact list of the email system. If you want to better understand what is the true meaning of "I love you" and to what type of love these words fit best then read the true Love story at the home page of this site. I myself Radha Kishan and I wrote that story and its my true love experience. There is no need to say "I love you" from mouth if you are in true first love. Your heart will say you love someone and she will also understand that you love her. When you purpose someone for love then you say these words and that kind of love cannot be true love. True lovers have great mutual understanding.
Author:Radha Kishan
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